Bill Rusin, Interim Principal
In today’s world, we are increasingly prone to receiving information in smaller, bite-sized portions. This is driven by the rise of smart devices and the reality that we live in an era of constant distraction. There is an abundance of content available for consumption that rarely requires prolonged attention, unless it is flashy and hyper-stimulating.
In the midst of this clamorous culture, we risk conditioning both ourselves and our children to crave fragmented, highly stimulating information, while losing our ability to appreciate the quieter, slower rhythms of reality. Too often, in search of a moment’s peace, parents hand children a smart device for distraction. It’s not uncommon to see toddlers in prams, eyes transfixed on a glowing screen. Adults do much the same, using devices to “pass the time.”
In the process, we are slowly losing the art of enjoying quietness, deep thought, and reflection—the kind that comes through activities which are not instantly stimulating. Activities such as reading, which fosters imagination, or walking and running, which provide space for reflection and processing, are gradually losing their place in our society.
As you seek to be the best parents you can be, I encourage you to model a different way of living for your children. Set aside times during the week to read together. Encourage activities that are slower-paced, that open up space for thought, and that invite meaningful conversations.
After all, we were created as relational beings, designed for real connection. Make time to simply be together, allowing for meaningful conversations to take place, especially around the table at mealtimes rather than in front of a screen. Pray together, laugh together, and cry together.
Let your children see your patience. Let them learn to wait as they watch you waiting. These simple but powerful practices will bless not only your children but also everyone they grow to interact with.