Rethinking Motivation–Relationship Over Rewards

Mr Bill Rusin, Interim Principal

At Kuyper Christian School, we take a distinctive approach to student motivation—one that prioritises relationship, grace, and purpose over traditional reward systems. Rather than relying on stickers, stars, or awards to motivate students, our approach centres on fostering a genuine desire to learn, grounded in love, dignity, and meaningful connection with God, teachers, peers, and the learning process itself. We want our students to grow into confident, compassionate learners who are motivated by relationships, curiosity, and service, not by competition or comparison.

The Heart of Motivation: Relationship

We believe each child is a whole person, created in God’s image, deeply relational, and responsive to love and grace. This means that motivation should stem from strong, loving relationships between students and teachers, where trust, forgiveness, and unconditional acceptance give students the courage to take risks and learn from failure.

We want our teachers to model a personal love for learning and set high, compassionate expectations that demonstrate an understanding of students’ strengths and weaknesses and inspire them to grow. In the context of this type of learning relationship, students are affirmed through meaningful, natural feedback that is directly connected to their learning, rather than extrinsic rewards, prizes, or marks.

Learning with Purpose: Motivation Through Context

Just as Jesus lived fully in the context of His time and culture, we believe learning must be rooted in real, purposeful life experiences. This means that lessons should be relevant, challenging and engaging, with opportunities for exploration, surprise and real-world impact.

Such an approach avoids artificial motivation tactics that foster competition or selfishness. Instead, it allows students to discover joy in the learning process itself and in outcomes that serve God and others.

Play and Creativity: Motivation Through Joy

God is the Creator of life, joy and beauty. The creativity, artistry, and craftsmanship of teachers and students are genuine reflections of a creating God and vibrant expressions of our humanness. We want our classrooms to reflect this through playful and creative learning experiences that stimulate curiosity and imagination; embrace humour, drama, and excitement; and celebrate talents, craftsmanship, and the thrill of discovery.

We want our students to pursue excellence, not for grades or comparison, but for the joy of doing something well and the satisfaction of sharing that in community.

Upholding Dignity Over Dangles

Using external rewards can undermine children’s dignity and intrinsic motivation. They convey the message that students are not naturally interested, trustworthy, or capable unless they are coaxed. At Kuyper, we believe every child is made in God’s image, with a unique purpose and deep capacity for learning. Our task is to inspire, not manipulate, that God-given desire.

Children are motivated by relationships, trust, purpose, and the satisfaction of learning well, not by trinkets or treats. They thrive when they feel their work matters—whether by sharing it with peers, receiving a thank-you, or being trusted with responsibility.

Our role as educators is to minister to the whole child, not to manipulate behaviour. To set high but realistic expectations in the context of trusting and respectful relationships, and to give feedback that is specific, constructive and rooted in genuine progress, not comparisons.

Learning In God’s World

At its heart, Kuyper’s approach to motivation is grounded in the Gospel:

Grace, not merit

Love, not manipulation

Relationships, not rewards.

This vision prepares students not only to achieve academically but to live with gratitude, humility, and purpose, following Jesus in every area of life.

Let us partner together as parents and teachers to inspire our children, not through external rewards, but through relationships that reflect God’s love, and learning that reflects His world.

State of Origin II

Wednesday 18 June

Watch it on the big screens!

Families are invited to join us to watch the State of Origin II in the School Hall from 7:30 pm on Wednesday, 18 June.

Wear your colours, bring your flags, and enjoy the competition with your mates.

A canteen will be available on the night, offering snacks and soft drinks. BYO fold-up chair or rug to sit on.

Building Resilience

Kaelene McCaull, Head of Primary

Last Thursday, our K-6 students were treated to a special visit from the NED organisation as part of their Ned’s Resiliency Ride tour. The engaging and dynamic presenter, Shaun, captured the attention of students across all year levels with his impressive yo-yo skills.

Shaun used his performance to teach three key ideas:

  • Not giving up
  • Encouraging others
  • Doing your best.

These simple yet profound concepts were brought to life through his storytelling, humour, and, of course, a series of jaw-dropping yo-yo tricks that left students both amazed and inspired.

The school hall was filled with laughter, clapping, and enthusiastic participation as Shaun reminded us all that challenges are opportunities to grow.

However, the learning did not stop once the yo-yo was packed away. Back in classrooms, our teachers encouraged students to reflect more deeply on the idea of resilience from a Christian perspective. 

While it is important to persevere and do our best, as God’s people, dearly loved by Him, we are never expected to rely solely on our own strength. Students were reminded that God is with us through every difficulty. It is in His strength that we can use the challenges of living in this broken world to grow in character and faith. One of our Year 3 students put it beautifully, 

“Never give up and remember that God is always with you.” 

Despite the relative wealth and comfort we experience in Australia, we cannot expect this life to be easy. This is something we can all attest to as we reflect on our own life experiences, and something we are reminded of in the Bible. In John 16:33, Jesus says,

“In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” 

What a great comfort it is to know that this same sovereign God, who has overcome the world, walks beside us in every trial.

In our classrooms, we also took the opportunity to reflect on how God places us in community. We are not alone in our struggles, and part of being resilient means leaning on one another, offering support and encouragement, and serving each other in love. 

Resilience is not about pretending everything is okay or ignoring the hard times. True resilience, rooted in faith, means acknowledging our struggles while trusting that God is using these moments to shape us into the people He is calling us to be.

For the time being, Yo-Yos have become an optional part of our primary playgrounds. In a world rich with experiences of instant gratification, it has been wonderful to walk through the playground and see students practising to build new skills that take time, perseverance, and patience to develop. Even better has been the experience of watching students help and support each other in the pursuit of these new skills. From watching older students unknot and rewind the strings of younger students ’ yo-yos, to hearing them share ideas and encouragement, and finding joy in others’ achievements, it has been a great reminder of God’s wisdom in placing us in community.  

Through the NED incursion and the follow-up conversations we have been having in our classrooms, our students are learning that resilience isn’t something you have or don’t have, but rather something we can develop as part of our character through the ups and downs of this life. As we trust in God’s strength, we grow in godly character, becoming people who can face life’s challenges with courage, compassion, and hope.

We’re thankful to NED and to Shaun for bringing an important message to our school for us to reflect on, and even more thankful that we can anchor that message in the eternal hope we have in Christ.

National Reconciliation Week

Bill Rusin, Interim Principal

National Reconciliation Week is recognised annually from 27 May to 3 June. It is a significant time for reflection, healing, and action. As Christians, we are called to do more than recognise the need for reconciliation; we are called to be peacemakers and reconcilers, following the example of Christ, who reconciles all humanity to God.

In his letter to the Corinthian Church, Paul writes:

All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.

2 Corinthians 5:18

This is not a “nice if you can” suggestion, but an imperative for God’s people.

Historically, Reconciliation Week has roots in the Christian church in Australia, beginning as a Week of Prayer for Reconciliation in 1993. Today, many Christian communities across Australia continue to engage in prayer, advocacy, and practical steps toward justice for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

While our call to be reconciled to one another is much larger than the relationship between First Nations people and those who came later, it is nevertheless good to be reminded of the need to be reconciled with our First Nations brothers and sisters. For our school in Kurrajong, we acknowledge that we are on traditional Dharug land.

Kuyper has a number of values shaped by biblical truths that speak into this space:

Freedom

“You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love.”
Galatians 5:13

Fair Go

Being fair, just, merciful, loving, considerate, and other person-centred, acting with equity, and giving opportunity and access.
(Based on various texts from Proverbs 2, Leviticus 19 and Hosea 12)

Being Caring and Compassionate

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.”
Philippians 2:3

During Reconciliation Week, we remind ourselves and the children we teach that these biblical truths extend to all people. At this particular time, we seek to show respect, generosity, justice, and mercy to the Dharug nation, who cared for the beautiful land on which our school is built.

2026 Year 7 Information Evening

Tuesday 24 June
6:30 – 8 pm

The transition to high school is a significant milestone in your child’s learning journey.

At Kuyper Christian School, we combine curriculum delivery from a Christian perspective with a supportive and nurturing environment to encourage our students to grow in character with the confidence to serve.

We invite you to join us for our 2026 Year 7 Information Evening on Tuesday, 24 June, to gain an insight into Secondary education at Kuyper.

  • Meet our Secondary Leadership Team.
  • Learn how our teaching staff craft curriculum delivery through a Biblical lens for transformative learning.
  • Discover how our co-curricular programs help students to live their learning.
  • Find out why we value partnership with parents.
  • Catch the vision of our Kurrajong Program, designed to grow students whose lives are marked by strength, wisdom and humility.

The evening will commence at 6:30 pm in the School Library and conclude with a light supper and the opportunity to speak with staff.

We look forward to seeing you there.

Primary School Tour Morning

Wednesday 11 June
11:45 am – 1:15 pm

Looking for a strong start for your child in a nurturing and supportive environment?

Our Prep program is designed to gently prepare young learners for the routines and rhythms of school life. With a strong emphasis on belonging, exploration, and foundational learning, your child will be nurtured in a supportive environment as they become part of the Kuyper community and transition into Kindergarten with confidence. From there, Kuyper offers a seamless journey from Kindergarten to Year 12 in a Christ-centred community with teachers who truly know your child.

See where the journey begins. Take a tour of our primary school on Wednesday, 11 June. Meet our community and see us in action.

We have been taking Christian Education seriously for over forty years. Discover the difference it makes to have Jesus as the heartbeat of your child’s education from start to finish.

Register Now

The Dignity of Our Students

Mitch Cavens, Head of Secondary

As a Senior Leadership Team, we have been reading and reflecting on 12 Affirmations: Reformed Christian Schooling for the 21st Century, a resource that has been sharpening our vision and reaffirming our convictions about what Christian education is and must continue to be. Each affirmation offers a timely and biblical challenge to deepen the way in which we think about teaching, learning, and formation at Kuyper Christian School. This week, we want to share with you some thoughts based on the fifth affirmation, which focuses on recognising each student as uniquely created in the image of God.

At Kuyper, we hold a deep conviction that every child is created in the image of God and uniquely called to serve Him with the gifts and opportunities He provides.

This belief shapes our understanding of students, not merely as learners, but as whole persons who are to be nurtured in their God-given identity and purpose. We seek to honour the dignity of each student and cultivate a learning environment where every child is known, valued, and encouraged to grow into who God made them to be.

Translating this idea into educational practice isn’t always simple. One way we can honour this belief is by working hard to create a learning environment at Kuyper that is never one-size-fits-all. We desire not to simply produce students who conform to a standard, but to form individuals and a community who are called to glorify God in diverse and beautiful ways. Our approach to teaching and learning is rooted in the recognition that each student brings different strengths, struggles, and stories to the classroom. Our responsibility is to teach in ways that reflect this diversity while pointing every student to the unity they share in Christ.

Differentiated learning strategies, pastoral care, co-curricular and extra-curricular involvement are some ways we work at providing a place where all students can find a space to flourish. In doing so, it is our deep hope that our students will see that they have been given an important role to play in God’s Kingdom—a role that no one else can fill in quite the same way. It is our prayer that every Kuyper student grows not only in knowledge but in the confidence that they are fearfully and wonderfully made.

For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.

Psalm 139: 13-14

This vision also calls us to a distinct view of justice and compassion. We are called to be a school community that lifts up the vulnerable, welcomes the outsider, and challenges anything that would diminish the worth of another. We encourage our students to look beyond themselves, to seek out those who are lonely or struggling, and to practise the mercy and humility that Christ modelled in his ministry on earth.

In 1 Corinthians 12, Paul writes of the Church as a body with many parts, each essential and interdependent. We hope to partner with you in applying this same truth to our school and students: every student matters, every contribution is significant, and together we reflect something of God’s glory that we could never reflect alone. This belief energises our teaching, shapes our discipline, and works to grow life and grace in the community.

Thank you for trusting us to walk alongside your children as we seek to raise up a generation who know who they are in Christ and are equipped to serve Him faithfully.

If We Live in God’s Kingdom, We Let God Reign

Tim White, Interim Deputy Principal

Abraham Kuyper, after whom our school is named, believed that we live within the parameters of God’s kingdom. He famously said, 

“There is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is Soverign over all, does not cry, ‘Mine!’”

This statement emphasises ownership and rule. It proclaims that this creation is God’s kingdom! 

In light of this, we do well to consider who we are and whose we are. What we as a community believe shapes the people we become. 

The ‘ethics’ of any environment will shape the people within it. Every group in every society has an idea of who or what people should be like. There is always a perfect ‘goal’ or ‘ideal’ in mind. Look at our Australian oath of allegiance and citizenship expectations, as just one example.

Sometimes, our example of the ‘ideal’ is someone specific like a political leader or national hero. Sometimes, it is more obscure, such as the ideal of ‘my truth’. However, everyone on this earth worships something they want to be like – something they esteem as ‘perfect’. 

To a Buddhist, it would be Buddha. To a fashion designer, it would be Pierre Cardin. 

To a Christian community, it is Jesus. 

We can choose to worship and honour God, or we will honour and follow another god. Our choice is not simply to serve God or to be neutral. Our choice is to serve our Creator-Saviour or serve any number of other gods to whom we choose to commit ourselves. 

Money, prestige, comfort, recognition, and power are just some of the gods who compete with Jesus’ place as King. We can devote our lives fully to God or serve an idol (or ideal) such as money, pleasure or self. 

There is no such thing as neutrality in God’s kingdom. For God knows that any area we see as neutral is in fact an area of life where we refuse to acknowledge that he is King. In that area of life, another king is ruling. If our commitment is not wholeheartedly to Jesus, it will be to something else. 

Our goal as a Christian school community is to truly acknowledge Jesus as King, and to achieve this, we must truly know Jesus.

God reveals Himself to us in His creation and in His Word, the Bible. In His Word, we read about God’s plan to free people from the guilt and shame of sin in the death and resurrection of His Son, Jesus. We read about God’s expectations for His people to live a life that seeks to spread healing in a hurting world. We understand that Jesus is God’s Word to us about how to be right with God and how to treat our neighbours. 

As a Christian community, it is our goal to know God as He has revealed Himself and let Jesus reign!

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for people … It is the Lord you are serving.”

Colossians 3: 23-24 

Welcome to Term 2

Bill Rusin, Interim Principal

Welcome to Term 2. It has been a busy school holiday with Easter, Anzac Day and Kuyper’s service learning adventure to Vanuatu for our senior students. There will be plenty of stories to tell, and we look forward to hearing them in the coming days.

The type of learning involved in our senior service learning trip is particularly impactful as we seek to develop students who understand what it means to be content, whilst having a compassionate heart towards those who have less. Developing these heart attitudes is something that we hope for all of our students.

As parents, you have a key role in helping your children develop these heart attitudes towards their school learning experience. When you talk with them at the end of each day, you might ask questions such as,

When we ask these sorts of questions, we show our students that generosity and kindness are important to us and that we would like them to value these qualities as well.

As students return to school and life gets back to normal, it is good to remind them that not all learning has to be fun. Sometimes it can be tough and even a little boring. That is not a bad thing. Learning may be stimulating and exciting, but we should not expect that to always be the case. How enjoyable we find something does not necessarily determine its value.

As a staff, we are thankful for the opportunity to grow and nurture your children, and we value the partnership we share with you in this process.

This term, we have some new families joining Kuyper. We look forward to welcoming them into our community. If you have the opportunity, please take a moment to say hello and introduce yourselves. Doing life together is one of the strengths of our school community.

There will be numerous opportunities for parents to strengthen community by engaging in the life of the school this term, starting with our school ANZAC Assembly, the Stage 6 Information Evening, the Federal Election Candidate Forum, our inaugural Mother’s Day Breakfast, the School Cross Country, and our Term 2 Working Bee just in the next two weeks! Check your Kuyper App or the school website Events page for details. We hope to see you soon.

Kuyper’s Biggest Morning Tea

New Date: Friday 15 August

We warmly invite parents, grandparents and friends to join us as we break out the white tablecloths and fine china for a Kuyper’s Biggest Morning Tea.

Friday, 15 August
10:30 am – 12 pm

$25 per person
RSVP: Monday, 11 August

The Biggest Morning Tea is an initiative of the Australian Cancer Council to raise funds for life-saving research, prevention programs, and support for those impacted by cancer. Kuyper’s Catering Service Team has registered with the Cancer Council and will host Kuyper’s Biggest Morning Tea as a symbol of support for those in our school community who are dealing with or have dealt with this disease.

This event is designed for adults. However, childminding is available and can be booked at no extra cost when you purchase your ticket.

Tickets can be purchased online via the link below. All proceeds raised will go to the Australian Cancer Council.

We hope to see you there!

Winter Markets

Thursday 3 July
5:00 – 7:30 PM

Are you ready for Kuyper’s inaugural Winter Markets? Download a program now.

Step into a Winter Wonderland as we transform our School Hall and Village Greeen into a winter night delight with twinkling lights, SNOW, food, entertainment, market stalls, and children’s activities on Thursday, 3 July, to raise funds for school development projects.

Entertainment includes:

  • The Kuyper Concert Band
  • Secondary Musicians
  • Snow ‘n’ Throw Event (find out more on our Facebook page)

Meet Our Vendors:

  • Dutch Master Poffertjes – delicious mini Dutch pancakes
  • La Magdelana Cakery – cakes and desserts
  • Crafty Kids & Co – custom gifts
  • The Wasted Wood Craftsman – artisan wood craft
  • Love ‘n’ Beads – keychains, bracelets, lanyards, & candles
  • Crafty Creations by Abi – handmade resin keyrings and pens, candle holders, macrame, & greeting cards
  • Sensory Jams – handcrafted jam
  • Kassis Co – new toys

Plus a Mega BBQ, Coffee & Hot Chocolate, Fairy Floss, Kids’ Craft and more!!

With thanks to our Sponsors:

Sunday is Coming

Bill Rusin, Interim Principal

During the time when slavery was seen as acceptable in the United States, there was a story about how enslaved people would encourage each other amid their often dreadful experiences as workers on the cotton farms. Carrying out backbreaking work each day, toiling in the stifling heat without much rest, one would call out, “It’s Friday”, and the others would answer, “But Sunday’s a commin’.”

Very few of these people had any chance of improving their lives. They would live and die in servitude, owned by another. Yet, in the midst of a time when life felt unbearable, this simple refrain reflected a future hope. “It’s Friday….But Sunday’s a commin’.”

Their words were recalling the terrible time in history when Jesus, the rightful King of the Universe, willingly humbled himself to the dreadful process of crucifixion at the hands of the Roman Empire. This macabre and brutal public execution was used by the Romans to maintain law and order. A deterrent to others who might dare challenge their might.

On that fateful Friday when Jesus was arrested, some of His followers would have watched the event unfold in a way that rocked their core belief in the man they believed was the Messiah. After all, as Jews, they were also under oppressive Roman rule. They hoped for a rescuer, a saviour, who would free them and their descendants from this heavy burden.

But on that Friday, all seemed lost. The one they had pinned all their hope on was dead. 

Yet on the third day, Sunday, when some women went to anoint Jesus’ dead body, they were met by an empty tomb and an angelic being who said to them,

“Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He has risen; he is not here. See the place where they laid him. “

Matthew 28:5-6

Later, the risen resurrected Christ would make his presence known to those who followed him but had abandoned all hope.

The enslaved Americans knew this story well, and as they suffered, they reminded themselves that their Sunday was coming. Their oppression would end, and, as followers of the risen one, they would receive new resurrection bodies. Perfect, healthy, immune from the ravages of pain and suffering.

Was this a false hope? Multitudes of Christians throughout ages past and present would chorus a resounding “No!”

This is the great and sure hope. It is my hope.

It is the only sure hope we have. Suffering and pain are commonplace. This will continue until Jesus, the crucified and resurrected one, comes again. Those who place their faith in him can look forward to a world where everything is perfect—no more pain, suffering, or death!

May God bless you and your family this Easter as you reflect on and celebrate events that occurred so long ago and yet changed the world forever. May you look to Jesus for your hope and the hope of the world.

Join us on Tuesday, 8 April, for our Easter Celebration Assembly.